Mum shamers should be ashamed!
In Support of Hypnobirthing Mum, Ferne McCann
Birth is as unique and individual as the parents and babies experiencing it. Ferne McCann's recent appearance on 'This Morning' and her open discussion about her birthing experience has sparked debates and unfortunately, some undue criticism.
It's important to first establish that every birth story is valid and unique, and each experience can vary from the next. While Ferne's journey might not resonate with everyone, it is her truth, and it was her experience. She shared about "breathing out" her daughter, Finty, highlighting the power of hypnobirthing techniques and preparing well with the right education.
Ferne's statement, "I surrendered," perfectly encapsulates the essence of hypnobirthing – trusting your body, the process, and letting nature take its course.
The Sun newspaper reported that Ferne's comments were met with skepticism, even from the host Holly Willoughby. Moreover, some viewers took issue with her portrayal of birth, deeming it 'unrealistic'.
It's important to remember that while not every parent will have the same experience as Ferne, it doesn't invalidate her story or the merits of hypnobirthing. Many that prepare this way genuinely find hypnobirthing techniques resulted in smoother, less painful and more positive birth experiences.
Ferne's dedication to her hypnobirthing education and consistent practice in preparation for her birth day played a significant role in her experience. Instead of undermining her effort and preparation, we should celebrate her and every mother who chooses to embrace such techniques in hope of a more positive and relaxed birthing experience.
Furthermore, it's essential to recognise that 'mum-shaming' serves no positive purpose. In an era where we are fighting for more control over our bodies and birthing experiences, we should rally in support of one another. Whether you've had a caesarean birth, an epidural, a home birth, or breathed your baby out, like Ferne McCann, every mother's journey is special and worth celebrating.
Let's uplift and empower each other, sharing our stories without judgment and respecting the choices of every mother out there. Ferne McCann's experience with hypnobirthing is just one of the countless testimonies to its potential benefits. I know first hand how diligent she was in my classes and how much she embraced her daily practice. Go Ferne, there is nothing wrong about sharing how proud you are of the amazing homebirth hypnobirth you have just achieved.
Your doula always
Tamara x